To submit your vote please sign in or sign up , it is free and takes a few seconds. Credit for this post goes to Billy. Aside from the racism in thinking of black men as superior lovers that are well hung, it is not wrong, just the first step to ruining your marriage. It is racist to generalize about a race even if in a good way. It really is a carryover from the old days when it was felt that a woman was lowering herself by having sex with what was then considered, an inferior race.

Suddenly single at 52, I had a lot to learn about dating. But nothing prepared me for the casual racism. I had been with my partner for six years when she announced, abruptly, that it was over. I remember she was crying.

For example, you have two usernames. One is Bob, and the other is CasualSexLover-NYC. It is clear like a day and night which one of those two shows clearly what type of partner or an encounter you are looking for.