Blind date in shanghai
Years ago, when I was still in college, my parents and I were strolling through the blind date corner aka "marriage market" at Shanghai's People's Park, where they pointed at someone's profile and said to me jokingly, "If you don't lose weight, you will have to go to People's Park one day. It was a Saturday morning and I decided to browse the blind dating corner to see if I could find some potential mates for myself, not because I am desperate but just to appease my mother, who reminds me daily that 24 is no longer young according to Chinese standards and, thus, I am on the verge of being "left over. This corner has in fact expanded over the years from a literal corner of the park into a vast area that is crowded shoulder-to-shoulder on weekends with concerned parents and single adults of all ages. They can be divided into the following groups: Shanghai born, new residents, overseas returnees and those living out in the suburbs. Veteran parents know a good spot at the park means more exposure for their kids, so they arrive early to compete with each other. Most of the profiles, however, seem to be for females in their 30s who "missed their chance" finding a husband.




Blind Date, A Comeback in Modern Chinese Life




Chinese Blind Date - CITS
We had a very interesting walk around the main Shanghai square on an early Saturday morning. There we were met by a busy crowd of mostly elderly people. They start working on it actively as early as June, in the hope that during the fall and winter, or until the Spring Festival, their children will already be married or at least in a serious relationship. It was difficult to find someone we could talk to in English, and our knowledge of Chinese was nothing to write home about, but we still managed to find out a few things, and to be a little shocked by what we had learned. Every weekend from noon until 5 p. The parents walk around browsing and taking notes of ads in the hope of finding a perfect match for their child. Although such gatherings are fun for the parents, with young people who strive for the Western lifestyle, these methods of getting to know someone are not really popular, but if you ask them something about it the majority of the young Chinese will say they understand their parents, but few will continue to discuss the topic.



Shanghai marriage market
Going on a blind date in China have been a long-standing tradition to acquire marriage partners. In ancient times, families use matchmakers as mediators when setting up marriages for their children. Although the dating practices in China has evolved over the years, the tradition of allowing third party members to decide about their marriage stays the same.





Parents of unmarried adults flock to [1] the park every Saturday and Sunday from noon to 5 p. The primary goal of attending the Shanghai marriage market is for parents to find a suitable partner for their child. The standards of finding the right match may be based upon but not limited to age, [1] height, [1] job, [1] income, education, family values, Chinese zodiac sign, [1] and personality.

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